Grudges are all-around a detriment. Not only do they eat one slowly from the inside, but it also causes a huge root of passive-aggressiveness. No matter the amount of silent hatred, it’ll hurt the person who holds it more than whatever is currently being resented. If anger must simmer, it should be a gradual phase, not a lifelong feeling to hold onto like a leech. Not to dismiss any past occurrences that may have caused the feeling of resentment. But it’s insanely unhealthy to let it dictate judgment and bitterness for the entirety of one’s lifetime. The simplest solution is to simply forgive but not forget. Therefore, one can move on, but their resentment doesn’t control them or make them potentially irate. We all hold grudges, but it’s how we heal from them that fully counts.
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